Tuesday, April 22, 2003
Monday, April 7, 2003
Warning - read at your own risk - don't take it personally cause I am merely venting - lord knows I need a distraction these days!! I intend no harm but I really really just need to get this out...
An Open Letter to the Community -
Dear friends -
You jumped ship as fast as you could, you didn't even try to give change a chance - I almost wonder - do you turn your back on friends/family as quickly when things go odd?? Then you complain that no one answers things - well if there are no answers who do you have to blame?? YOURSELVES!! It's YOU who is not replying to questions/announcements, it's YOU who has moved on to another place... And for those that DO post but get no replies - did you stop to think maybe that no one has the answer you seek?? And that those that MIGHT have an answer are the same people that jumped ship w/you?? And how is that someone that was lurking w/no time to post suddenly has so much time at the "new" place?? That just cuts to the heart too! Then you stop any other means of communication with others that didn't jump ship w/the rest... Gee that's real adult huh?? Don't bother to say hello via IM or email just because that person isn't posting in a new location?? Ok maybe that's not how it is but that sure is how it seems.. I am just soo tired of the complaining and bickering - while I do understand that change is hard it's a part of life - accept it, deal w/it... If you want a family/community to be strong and healthy you have to ride out the bad now and again and jumping ship merely puts a rift in the structure of the family... to be honest I HATE the change as much as you all but damn it I am loyal and change IS a fact of life... those in charge at the old location SAY they are listening and gonna work on things - I am willing to give them a chance.... I am a sucker for 2nd, 3rd, 4th chances in case you hadn't noticed - if I wasn't my children wouldn't be here now - atleast not by the father they have... And I just don't see the HUGE slow down of loading/posting that others seem to see... could it be that you just are ticked about the change and are looking for ANYTHING to complain about?? *sigh* It's all just soo exasperating and I feel like I am taking the fire for something I had no control over anymore then anyone else in my community...
Ok I am done ranting... I just want everyone to get along and be friends... is that so hard??
Well I guess I said enough - again I am NOT trying to hurt anyone - I just needed to get MY hurt feelings out and this is all JMHO and remember - opinions are like assholes - we all have them!!! This is mine! And now that I am sure I have managed to upset or piss some of you off (and I am sorry for that!) Til next time...
Warning - read at your own risk - don't take it personally cause I am merely venting - lord knows I need a distraction these days!! I intend no harm but I really really just need to get this out...
An Open Letter to the Community -
Dear friends -
You jumped ship as fast as you could, you didn't even try to give change a chance - I almost wonder - do you turn your back on friends/family as quickly when things go odd?? Then you complain that no one answers things - well if there are no answers who do you have to blame?? YOURSELVES!! It's YOU who is not replying to questions/announcements, it's YOU who has moved on to another place... And for those that DO post but get no replies - did you stop to think maybe that no one has the answer you seek?? And that those that MIGHT have an answer are the same people that jumped ship w/you?? And how is that someone that was lurking w/no time to post suddenly has so much time at the "new" place?? That just cuts to the heart too! Then you stop any other means of communication with others that didn't jump ship w/the rest... Gee that's real adult huh?? Don't bother to say hello via IM or email just because that person isn't posting in a new location?? Ok maybe that's not how it is but that sure is how it seems.. I am just soo tired of the complaining and bickering - while I do understand that change is hard it's a part of life - accept it, deal w/it... If you want a family/community to be strong and healthy you have to ride out the bad now and again and jumping ship merely puts a rift in the structure of the family... to be honest I HATE the change as much as you all but damn it I am loyal and change IS a fact of life... those in charge at the old location SAY they are listening and gonna work on things - I am willing to give them a chance.... I am a sucker for 2nd, 3rd, 4th chances in case you hadn't noticed - if I wasn't my children wouldn't be here now - atleast not by the father they have... And I just don't see the HUGE slow down of loading/posting that others seem to see... could it be that you just are ticked about the change and are looking for ANYTHING to complain about?? *sigh* It's all just soo exasperating and I feel like I am taking the fire for something I had no control over anymore then anyone else in my community...
Ok I am done ranting... I just want everyone to get along and be friends... is that so hard??
Well I guess I said enough - again I am NOT trying to hurt anyone - I just needed to get MY hurt feelings out and this is all JMHO and remember - opinions are like assholes - we all have them!!! This is mine! And now that I am sure I have managed to upset or piss some of you off (and I am sorry for that!) Til next time...
